If travel were expressed by the origin of the partners you’ve had in life, I’ve been to many, many countries.
With that short statement which should tell the mature reader so much, I’d like to tell why I feel the American women aren’t really looked at as much of a commodity.
Hear me out.
When was the last time you’ve heard anyone say anything specifically positive about American women? You know, other than in cheesy old songs. But really heard a man craving an American woman. Over all else. Yea, we date them, screw them, and marry them all the time; but when was the last time you knew of anyone having a fetish or a serious preference to them, especially if they had a choice? When was the last time you heard of someone trying to mail order an American bride lol? But seriously…
What are their outstanding traits? [keep in mind, of course these are stereotypes]
“Independent” [whatever the hell that’s supposed to mean]
While some men look at those traits as affable qualities, I certainly don’t. Those are just some of the things I and other American men will say about our women. Do you happen to know what foreign men think about American women typically?
Now, I don’t neccessarily agree with women being controlled, but I do think women in America put a certain emphasis or over-depency on the need to be ‘hard-to-handle’. It’s a bragging right of many women in America that I’ve never quite understood. So much so that whenever I see women saying that as if it’s a selling point, I have to ask, why do you feel like being difficult is something we’re looking for? I mean honestly, if you want a man, why do you want to make his life miserable from the get-go? At least wait til you’re married! [just joking]
In dating foreign women, I’ve noticed they have formulated opinions about American woman as well. The foreign women have had many questions about our women, and often express relief that they don’t share traits with them. When it comes to matters of love and marriage that is. Women in other countries see attracting a man with qualities including but also other than their looks.
Being a good wife and mother are still things women look forward to in life in places other than America.
They are finding comfort and inspiration in being educated and also being career women, but ultimately want to also fulfill a higher purpose in life [as they see it] being a wife to a good man and bearing their children.
That, is a total package I think.
I’ve noticed more and more American women all but shunning the idea of being married and having kids. Now, with the state of marriage and parenting in our country, I can’t say I blame them. But how much damage could we claim to a new generation of women who don’t want to… be women!?
Normally, I’d say this type of thing is merited seeing as how Men have been systematically fucking women over in our country for decades. But… men have been doing women shitty in every country! From what I read, Saudi men treat women… really really poorly and they still aspire to be good wives, as well as be educated and work. From what I’ve heard, experienced and seen [and done], men have been doing women from the Philippines wrong since forever! They still want nothing more than to have a good man, take care of him, love him and have his children.
I’ve often said it’s unfair to compare women of other nationalities to women from the Philippines because it’s either something in the water, or the way they’re raised, but they have a whole different outlook on love and relaitonships than anyone. This is so widespread it’s almost not even a stereotype. And people can preach that “it’s not a race thing’ all they want, because I get that to a certain extent… but they are different.
A posting I wrote on tagged inspired this blog; the response I received from American women was dare-I-say, predictable. But hey, I see women bashing men in all types of ways and I don’t get offended. There’s apparently a reason that person felt that way. Whether it’s “I’m not dating black men anymore”, “All men are dogs”, “Military men are whores” I can’t argue that. Apparently there was something that made these women say these things.
And though it’s only my opinion, [no matter how well researched or thought out] I know from all the times I’ve heard men drool over the eyes of Persian and Arab women, the bodies of Brasilian and Venezuealan women, the simple kindness and dependability of Filipinas, or the somehow attractive short-temperament of Puerto Rican, Cuban and Colombian woman, I feel ok with saying in comparison, “American Women Suck”.
I still love ya’ll though!
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