Good Pussy Vs. Good Sex (Yes, there’s a difference)


This is somewhat graphic:

Someone asked me a question that sparked this whole inappropriately titled blog.  She asked me “what makes a woman have good pussy?”  Meaning… I guess what characteristics about the vag make it good?  And of course, my answer wasn’t simple.

Though I will truthfully proclaim I don’t reallly like having sex often, I unfortunately have.  At high volume.  I’m somewhat of an authority on the matter.  I would tell people to check my resume, but I’d have to say; due to my memory, it’s wildly out of date.

This should be short.

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I told her that there was a difference betwixt good pussy and good sex.  The two shouldn’t be confused.  There are possibly men [or dykish women] that may say that all pussy is good. And if by “good” you mean it will eventually make a man ejaculate, you ARE correct!

However, when I think of good pussy I think of 4 things

-Diameter or ‘snugness’ [yes, I know the pussy is not particularly round… its more ovular, but you get what I’m saying]

-Wetness. I’m not going to get into whether getting the pussy wet is the responsibility of the womans parts, or that of the man [or dykish woman] in engagement.  But that (wetness) is another thing.

-Depth would be another thing, but I’m certain that’s not something a woman can help.

-Cleanliness. Do I need to go into that?

If you believe tightness, cleanliness and wetness are something you can’t control… women you don’t know yourselves very well.

SIDENOTE: Douching really isn’t the business… but I don’t really think doing it after your period is a BAD idea.  You have those that think doing it all the time is the way, and you have those that think you should NEVER do it.  I guess some of you gals are luckier than others.  But either way.  Do what works for you booboo.  Keep that damn thang clean!

Moving on. Even though I always hate to hear women bragging about how good their pussy is… or how good they THINK it is, there should be a matter of pride in it’s upkeep.

Now, good sex… is a COMPLETELY different story!

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It includes so much more. When I make love to a woman [oh you unlucky lady] I may notice that her pussy isn’t the tightest, may not be the wettest, and may bottom out at half the shaft, or have me feeling like a hotdog in a hallway.  But, what about everything else?  The kissing.  The touching.  Where her legs are. Are her eyes closed, or are they on you? The faces, the sounds, the arch in her back.

There are some women that just don’t make sounds during sex… or, I really do scuk as bad as I thought.  There are some that are extremely vocal.  There are some that just lie there. There are some that… well, you get the picture.  It’s these things that can turn standard, good, or great, pussy, into SUPERB sex.  I’m not saying that if you moan and groan all loud, and give all the gratification in the world while someones in your stank, loose puss that it’s going to make it alright… but what I am saying that there’s a combination of many things at play.

Hell… take the Brazilian people hear me talk about so much.  I’m sorry… but the bitch was bad.  The pussy was tight, AND wet than a motherfucker… but SHE was just HORRIBLE. Granted she was just about to turn 20 [I was 26] and CLAIMS she hadn’t had many sexual partners; and I’d believe it, I just wished her sex was better, to compliment that good pussy of hers.  But alas.

BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, YOU SUCK!

 

(Speaking of sucking,  here’s a slightly related VLOG I made, for all you Horndogs out there)

I’ve recently made love to a woman that made me feel like I was a fucking stud.  Absolute stud.  Like Mel Gibson in “What Women Want”.  Before during and after.  The things she said to me.  The way her legs were either up by my side or tightly wrapped around my body like they should be.  The way she exibited expert control of herself.  Sometimes control over me.  She touched my body like she appreciated it.  Like it was the first time she’d ever touched a man.  Not particularly the tightest I’ve ever had… but it was GOOD.  And super wet too.  I’m sorry for going into so much detail.  But I’m just trying to show how there is a lot to look into with this activity.

It’s not just so simple as having good pussy.

Ladies, If you want a man to keep coming back [for sex that is] you can’t just rely on the fact that you’re offering pussy.  And if you know it’s tight, and you know it’s wet, and CLEAN… that’s STILL not enough.  Because you can lie there buttasshole naked with your super-tight, super-wet, super-clean pussy in all it’s splendor; let Roger lie atop you and do his thing while you simply lie there still, motionless and mute like a patient in an MRI Machine and still not hear back.  Trust me.

So really, as I quickly wrap this up what I think she wanted to ask was: “What makes good sex?”  I could more easily answer that. It’s a combination of good pussy, and good sex.  A woman that undoubtedly takes care of her holiest of holies, and also puts some thought into the way she physically shows love. Sex.

Good pussy VS. Good sex.  There’s a difference.

And now you know it!

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47 thoughts on “Good Pussy Vs. Good Sex (Yes, there’s a difference)

  1. Cierra says:

    “Before during and after. The things she said to me. The way her legs were either up by my side or tightly wrapped around my body like they should be.”

    okay so, i get this but could you elaborate on the things she said. How does one make a man feel like ‘Mel Gibson in What Women Want’ as you describe it? lol

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    1. rlrooks says:

      Do recall the scene where Mel was having sex with Marisa Tomei? After she’d got done dogging him out [in her head] for the first round of sex… he regrouped himself, and did everything she wanted him to do. While she was praising him [again in her head] … that smile. That smile he showed when she proclaimed to herself, “Ladies and gentlemen, Nick Marshall is A SEX GOD” that’s the feeling I’m talking about.
      It can be brought on by many things. Not so much what a woman says, but the things she does, including everything I explained plus [a personal favorite for me] rubbing my head after I cum, etc.

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  2. Nicole says:

    Girls men like for you to stroke their egos, make him feel like he is the man with your sweet words and actions. Learn how to do that, give him some good sex per the author, plus some excellent head game. Be sensual, be sexy, be comfortable. He’ll never forget you.
    Ps . Try sucking his dick with some honey.. trust me

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      1. candi says:

        I prefer to use strawberry fruit roll ups. U have to suck harder to get it off and it makes it easier to swallow if he cums alot. I also use diced peaches when giving head. They’re soft and feel good in your mouth.

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      2. Christine says:

        She’s a real lady…we ARE out here… I know why my men couldn’t part ways with my lovemaking…it was because my entire soul is IN IT when I’m doing it… And that’s because I apply this rule: If you aren’t absolutely swept away by his essence…CRAAAZY for his lovin’…don’t waste his time. Or yours. That’s a real simple rule, IMO. If you’re crazy for his loving, and you’re confident and keep things clean, tight, well groomed (And, even if you’re sadly a short girl, like me, who he might bottom-out with if he’s over 7″)… And you are selfless, generous, and YES – LOVE to give head, learn how to do it just how he likes, and with PASSION… that man is never, ever going to forget your sexual encouters. Trust me. Even when you’ve long moved-on because the relationship aspect wasn’t progressing… you will be there, in his fantasy-memories that he pulls-up when he’s alone. Great article!! Also… I use agave…lol…it’s less syrupy/sticky and more lubed… ( ;

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    1. M. says:

      Done that. I love it. I miss it. I want more of it. (Lol)
      Yum yum. Honey. That can take hours.. plus rolling more honey on him.. and keep going. Now, and then looking up into his eyes.. handing him a cigarette or TV remote.. and keep on with the honey. Yum yum!!!!

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    2. preciious says:

      I think a lot of women have the wrong focus. It should be me first, but not only. What’s the point of having sex if you don’t enjoy it, thoroughly? At least 99% if the time… If he did you right you’re going to want to reciprocate, at the minimum, or do him one up show him how it’s done.

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    3. Sala Love says:

      If you gonna suck his dick wit honey..
      Make sure it’s 100% pure honey. Leave the generic honey along trust that ..make sure you have plenty water intake.

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  3. Heather says:

    I thought i was the only one who knew about giving BJs with honey!!! Lol. Nicole girl!!! U rock. Honey makes ur mouth water, it stays wet and U never gotta worry about ur mouth Gettn dry so U can pleasure him for as long as he can take it…and then some!!! Awesone

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  4. Jannieboo@yahoo.com says:

    Why is it always about the men when most of you’re either small, limp, big and can’t work it or have linty smelly balls. Women need to stop making some of these fools feel like they’re superior when they are not!!!! Good dick to me is when you can stand at attn at the sight of a wet pussy. I don’t have time to be slobbing over your wanker for over 20 minutes to get it hard…wth? By the time I put on my cowgirl hat and cowgirl boots and saddle you….you betta be ready. I know my shyt is overly wet, very tight and good. So when I am ready to ride and rock on the dick until I orgasm at least 4 times in 20 minutes, you better be ready. If not, I will laugh at your limp dick azz and tell u get to stepping.

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      1. Machella says:

        Play a game of Monopoly. Whoever goes to Jail has to do a sexual favor for the other person. I chosee to play with honey. I poured some honey on a plate. But at first was drizzling honey on him. When we first started the game, if we went to Jail.. we would have to lose an article of clothing. Monopoly will take a month or more to finish. Lol. There is always playing “Strip Chess” (hee..hee)

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  5. kc says:

    Okay so thats what guys appriciate… i must be doing it wrong cause i try to be giving before during and after i moan, maintain eye contact except when i really cant, looking over all of him enjoying the sights of him in me, spout praise, i move with his motions and try to read his body language, i ride, i suck, i get into it and he either thinks i am faking or just isnt into it… what am i doing wrong… (we’ve been together for over five years, when we first started having sex or i would give him head i could get his legs and sometimes his whole body shaking, he has had to curl up on his side a few times cause it was just to intense, i would make him ejaculate but he would still be going at it cause he was still turned on.. but now i can barely get a reaction from him… im lucky if sex lasts past a few mins and like i said he just doesnt seem to be in it… its like watching two dogs hump in the street… emotionless, even bored… what am i doing wrong?)

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    1. Robert Lovelle Rooks says:

      Hey KC. Thanks for commenting! I’m not certain I can tell you there’s an issue with what you’re doing. All I can say is, just because this blog was about good pussy and good sex (on the womans part) doesn’t mean that the man is going to stay interested in you year after year. That is another subject entirely.
      When comes to the matter of keeping the fire hot in your sex-life I’m DEFINITELY not a good source of information.
      But I have heard some things. Role-playing. Abstaining from sex for a few months. Watching pornography together, etc. But the first thing you should probably do is…. talk to him. Asking him the hard question.

      Hope this helped.

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      1. Machella says:

        Lol.. to all these gals. Lol. Kc isn’t focused. If it helps, pretend your blind & very thirsty & and love massaging. 😉

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      2. Machella says:

        Lol.. to all these gals. Lol. Kc isn’t focused. If it helps, pretend your blind & very thirsty & and love massaging. 😉 Try enjoying yourself. Or love pleasuring him or her… pretend if need be.. he is the king & you are his sex slave. Mmm.. got to go. It’s was a pleasure to read y’all. I’m too single & by choice. I want a real relationship & not the easy – dick – ready – guy.

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    2. Janey says:

      You are all about him–you are not really in your own body–he can tell you are not putting yourself first or really enjoying yourself sexually–you described acting out a part. Enjoy your own body and focus on that during sex. He will change his ways fast–aint nothing hotter than authenticity.

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  6. MJ says:

    KC..I think your doing everything right! Even the fact that you were reading this, tells me that, your trying and putting in a 100% to keep the fire going. My opinion (and it’s just an opinion) is that HE NEEDS to be putting in a lot more effort! And that HE’S THE ISSUE, not that he may realize it or intentionally not trying. But he needs to pay attention to you and your needs and how to keep the fire going for YOU! If he did that and you continued doing your thing, then you both will accomplish GOOD, HOT, PASSIONATE SEX together! I’ve been in my relationship for 8 yrs. And, so your comment caught my attention and I hope things get better for you guy’s and it’s definitely something you can fix, if you made him tremble before you can do it, AGAIN! Just have to work at it together and communicate and find new things to excite each other.
    P.S. Love YOUR BLOG AND COMMENTS….ROBERT L. ROOKS…THX FOR THE BLOG AND I’M GOING TO BE , Trying new edibles!

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  7. Tracy S. says:

    Ok, read your article on Good pussy vs good sex, first let me say I like your input on his guys brier the 2. My statement/question to you is did you know that right pussy is not good pussy?! When a woman is interested in the act or should I say excited and turned on her Pusey muscle relax but if she is not interested she is tense which the muscle tighten up. Or am I misunderstanding guys definition of tight pussy.

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    1. Robert Lovelle Rooks says:

      Well, that could be, because a woman can tighten those muscles. But if she’s into it, she should STILL KNOW how to tighten those muscles. Maybe she’s just enjoying herself too much to remember to lol. Which goes into the ‘good sex’ portion. She needs to keep him in mind and not get lost in enjoying herself.

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      1. Sugar Babe says:

        are you fking serious??? you may just be the most ignorant man on earth.. i don’t think you realise how hard it is for a woman to orgasm during penetration, knowing the struggle of this and having NO guy try to please me during sex you have tha audacity to say if she enjoys herself too much it’s a bad thing. by the sounds of it you are bad in bed, and to make yourself feel better you insist on telling women what they are doing wrong, when you could of quite frankly, discretely in a less immature way described how a woman can improve herself in bed. without having the ignorance you have shown.

        women were not put on this earth to please men. go fuck yourself.

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  8. preciious says:

    I think that my getting lost in pleasure is what makes it good, as well. I am admittedly a selfish lover: I need to cum at least several times before you ejaculate the first time… And trust that I am going to try to catch every roll, hump, thrust, vibe, and vibration that will get me there. And even if the view ain’t the best- the feel, taste, and texture of skin, muscle, and sweat is lovely. If he’s doing his job, I will sometimes forget to breath and have to force it with a scream, growl, or moan. And because I understand we all need encouragement, gratification, soothing and love, I express this in every caress, nudge, and word. You know how it feels after a long, hot shower you’re thirsty, exhausted, drained, and your is steaming from the heat… You sprawl out on the bed and take a deep breath and these warm but cool enough hands firmly press up the back of your thighs, up your back, to span your shoulders- man! That is so relaxing… That’s what I like to share with my partner.

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  9. Felicia says:

    Fantastic read, Robert! I dig your sense of humor. I agree that there is most definitely a difference between the two. It’s about what you put of yourself into the act. If I’m not passionate about someone, I’m sure as hell not going to be sleeping with them! After a 7-year relationship my ex and I were still having sex for 1 year until I put a stop to it; he still tries. It can keep them around, lol. As to KC: you’re too busy worrying on how you’re being perceived to actually relax and make love to your man. He can sense that tension and is right in a sense that he feels you’re acting; you are. If he’s been with you this long he obviously loves you, don’t be afraid to relax and do what YOU want to do instead of wondering if it’s good the whole time.

    P.S. Robert, you definitely can control the muscles whilst in the action. I clench too tight sometimes and it completely pushes them out. And from pleasuring myself I know that when you are being penetrated, you rub your clit and those muscles tighten right up.

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  10. Paris says:

    Well my new guy say I got some amazing pussy so I guess I got some good pussy it get soaking wet,it get tight fast, and it make him cum a lot .. I just wish I have both

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  11. Kandice says:

    lol I have to say I’m pretty sure I’m in love with the RLRooks. I came here because I can’t tell you how many times men have told me I have “good pussy”… and I ALWAYS ask them what the hell that means! You get mixed responses but generally there’s an initial “ummm, well see….” and then they’ll nervously land on wetness, tightness, and depending on the length of the slim Jim, depth. Im not particularly noisey mostly moans and guttural grunts when I’m really doing my thang on top. My pussy is super tight because I masturbate like 3 times a day, that’s like three 15 minute intensive kegel sessions. I get wet from giving good head cuz I’m pretty proud of myself I suppose so I’ve got the head and the wetness rolled into one. So based on this blog the answer to what makes pussy good really is as simple as they made it seem to be. lol I guess I’m here cuz I just wanted to brag about how good my pussy is, jkjk. This honey trick sounds interesting, I’m gonna have to try that out. Once again, I love you Rooks. If you take anything away from this know that lol.

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  12. Daoud Hopf says:

    Big difference between good pussy and good sex. Example, my wife. Her pussy is electric. Impossibly smooth, juicy and tight. Definite difference between front porch, parlor and deep horizon (and an occasional back door) Cums easy and often. After 2 times, will do anything to return the favor. Anything.
    However, it just doesn’t happen regularly. But (butt) when it does, it’s electric-shock magic. So my advice is to let her take control. You make the first advances, but after that let her decide. Come to think of it, the best is when she is in control. First time, first time anal, first time analyngous, first time DP has to be her decision. Let her have control most of the time and you will have a sex machine when she lets you take control.

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  13. MRCLEAN...FXAIELLO says:

    I recognizedthe diff betweengood pussy and good sex.at an early age. As this blog. Caught my attn, for what cums accross (pun intended)as honest with a touch of class… Though ive been blessed being Caucasian and extremely well indowed i, seldom as. A mere handfull of times.during a 35yr span…Took interest in anal , theOL Hershey hwy never connected well w/me.. Though eatin pussy i enliken to eating oysters both of which are myfavorite pastime and vigilence is key cause if you get a bad one you may never ever eat one again AND MAY NOT SURVIVE,,ID WAGEReven money on that friend… and when your female COUNTRRPARTperfects mixology,equal parts good pussy with good sex thats whats known as a keeper, to be protected an respected,and the keeper is biblically foretold in the bible…MAY G.B.Y.ALWAYS,

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